I think I’ve all but given up on trying to organize around something so annoying to me as sexuality
the idea that having sexual urges toward any given type of person somehow aligns me to anyone else who has even vaguely analogous desires to someone who is vaguely analogous to my desire object is boring
I don’t care about identities, I care about lifestyles
I don’t care about your urges, I care about your agency
gay is an unsatisfying category to me
faggot comes closer"